jersey shore, no snooki

Last week Addy and I went up to visit with my sisters while Doug went on another one of his rotations. The only pictures I took were a few from the day we went to the shore. It was a perfect beach day.




Thanks for taking me in, Cyd and Jenn!

quakepocalypse 2011

Yesterday afternoon we had a 5.9 earthquake. The epicenter was only 30 miles or so from here, so we felt it no problem. I was sitting at our desk when the rumbling started. It was shaking the whole house, so at first I thought it was just a truck passing by. But when it kept going, I realized, "Holy crap! We're having an earthquake!"

Addy was asleep, so I ran upstairs and ripped her door open. She was completely out, so I hesitated because the fear of an earthquake was up against my fear of ruining her nap. Illogical and unsafe? Perhaps. There was nothing over her crib and I could tell it wasn't super strong, so I just stood in the doorway watching her and the clock. I actually started thinking of my friend Anna, who went through the Japan earthquakes earlier this year. All I could think was "ANNA, YOU ARE MADE OF STEEL."

When it finally stopped (2 hours later, it seemed?), Doug called me right away. Of course I sounded hysterical telling him we were fine and making sure he was too. He said he was standing in the waiting room of the clinic when it started. He had just met his patient and they were about to head back, so they all just stopped and stared at each other. As a Washingtonian, he's been through his fair share of earthquakes. So he started inching towards the waiting room desk, getting ready to dive under it if he needed to. Luckily no diving was required. We're glad he called me when he did, because our phones stopped working right after. Thank goodness for Facebook and email.

I think what freaked me out more than anything was that this is RICHMOND. VIRGINIA. We do hurricanes and tornadoes, thanks. Our buildings are old, they're not built for earthquakes, and people here are not equipped for this. I'd actually heard there was a big fault line here before, but nobody ever talks about it. I'd been through one earthquake before while I lived in California, but it was more wavey and didn't freak me out as much.

So after our tornado scare, our earthquake scare, and our hurricane warning for this weekend, suffice it to say Doug and I went to the store last night and beefed up our emergency preparedness stuff. There were a lot of crazies there too, but I considered it good company.

so i guess we have to grow up and get a job?

Part of our trip to the wild west this summer was to solidify where the heck we want to move after Doug graduates. We have family all over the country, but we're both feeling good about moving westward. Dentistry is interesting because you usually can move to an area you like, work hard to make things work, and then you live in the same place the rest of your career. However, the big question is where to live. (WHERE?!)

It's been a heated discussion for us ever since we got engaged. We vowed to put it off until it was time to make that decision. Well, 5 years later... it's time to make that friggin decision.

So while we were in Washington and Colorado, we checked out some areas trying to look at them with different eyes... could we live here? Would Doug be able to do well here as a dentist? Would our children turn out okay if they lived here, or would they end up in prison? You know, standard questions.

Fortunately, I think we learned a lot on these trips. However, I think what we learned has only shown us how hard this is going to be on us. We feel tons of pressure, we both want the other to be happy yet we want to be happy ourselves, and we want to still like each other after this whole process is over.

So we're considering just hiring one of you to find him a job and us somewhere to live, and then you can present it all to us the day after his graduation.

And if we hate it? We'll just be mad at you, instead of each other. Let me know if you're interested.

smelling

So I can smell again. It is an absolute miracle, and I'm so SO grateful.

At first I was weeping because I could smell Addy's shampoo again, I could taste again, yada yada yada. It was so exciting. But do you know what stinks now? 75% of my life stinks to me now. It smells so strong. Our house, our kitchen, my clothes. You name it, I probably hate the smell of it.

As my dad said to me last night, I'd complain if I were hung with a new rope.

Since some of you asked... why can I now smell? I truly don't know. I believe it's either some of these or a combination of all of them:
- The dry weather in Colorado finally clearing up my sinuses
- My top allergens taking a rest here in Virginia
- Straight Mucinex for over a week (but now I only take it once every few days, if that)
- Dropping some other medicines that may have been affecting my sense of smell
- A heck of a lot of prayer
- Priesthood blessings from both Doug and my dad


The first time I noticed it was about halfway through our trip in Colorado. I got up early one morning to take care of Addy, and with her sitting on my lap I realized I could smell her shampoo for the first time in months. I may have started crying my eyes out. Since then I've been able to smell more often than not, and it's seriously life-changing. Although everything reeks to me, I have to say I'll never take smell for granted again.

home is whenever i'm with you

Every good family reunion deserves a photo slideshow, so Doug and I took it upon ourselves to make one for each of our families celebrating the best of 2010. I loved the one I saw our friend Brittany had, so I stole the same song and everything. Yeah, I did it.

Oh, and we ran out of time so the Dunlops and the Shafers have nearly identical layouts. Tacky, but what's done is done.

vacation part 3: denver

The last leg of our trip was in Denver, Colorado. My sister Jessica lives there, so the whole family gathered at her house, christening their new house with 28 people. So crazy, but so fun!

Cue the highlights:

Boating





Cousin time




Sweating it out at the trampoline center


Grandma and the little girls (she made their matching outfits)


More Just Dance


The brothers-in-law went out to an all-you-can-eat sushi place. Apparently they ate so much they almost died (yet it would have been a happy death).


The grown-ups spent a night out in downtown Denver (dining at a Brazilian grill? divine)


The local park had a sweet waterpark


Playing outside (slip n slide, adults on tiny dirt bikes, and more catching snakes)

vacation part 2: bend, or

The second week we drove down to beautiful Bend, Oregon and met up with the rest of the Shafer clan. Here are the highlights:

We stayed at the Eagle Crest Resort. We enjoyed their pools, tennis courts, raquetball courts, bikes, and wildlife (this deer kept coming up to our back porch and begging for... lettuce?).

One of the biggest highlights was meeting our sweet baby niece, Pepper. She's Ben and Whitney's first girl, and it's so fun to have a girl cousin for Addy to smother with love. Pepper is a teensy, easy-going baby, and we couldn't get enough of her!


We loved having all the cousins together


We played a lot of Just Dance on the Wii


We played at the Deschutes River



We toured a cute little chocolate factory in Bend (with delicious free samples)

We saw (and loved) HP

We checked out the gorgeous Metolius River


We saw acres and acres of burned trees on our drive. Crazy.

It was such a beautiful place (minus the fire-ravaged areas). We had a great time!